Year’s End

 

Time has become very elastic for me. Sometimes it seems very long, almost like a kid waiting for Christmas. Other times, it snaps back. We have been here 6 years. Can that be true?

I read that people with dementia are confused WHEN, so that is why they get so upset about WHERE they are. If this is 1964, why am I here and not in my childhood home? I get it. Although I’m fairly sure I’m still coherent. Not positive, but fairly sure.

It is just that some things seem like yesterday. Moving here. The kids are young, not approaching or hitting middle aged. I just bought that blouse. 

Then, other events seem so long ago. I bought that shirt at Macys in Fort Lauderdale. When did we ever live there?

Memories get reversed by importance?

In any case, we are here, and we are well. About all I can ask for. More than my share.

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